That's advice I'd already taken when I wrote the post (so it was good advice, just already been done). I'm just trying to think of creative, inexpensive little touches (especially for the reception, which is in the groom's parents' backyard) that will make it beautiful and fun. I have plenty of creativity; it just runs more to getting through adventure games live games with my sanity still intact. I wonder... maybe I can get a fantasy quest theme going?